Hey Love, bring on your sunny glow!… Commencement weekend for my baby just wrapped up—and wow, let me tell you, it was the best weekend ever… in the most chaotic way possible.”😅
From Alligator Alley to Commencement:
It was a weekend full of surprises. It all started with car trouble just as I hit Alligator Alley. Then my mom wasn’t feeling well (what felt like forever in the moment), and I forgot to reserve a table for dinner—of course, no luck getting one last minute. Someone lost their phone—cue eight hours of detective work and stress. And just as the car pulled up, my zipper gave out. No backup dress in sight, so I threw on whatever was lying on my bed. Oh—and yes, we were late to the commencement, and rain was on the program. Thankfully, I grabbed an umbrella for my mom.
But here’s the thing: we laughed through all of it. The energy was high, the vibe was right, and looking back, I wouldn’t change a single thing.
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Because somehow, it all worked out. The car was fine. My mom bounced back. We eventually got amazing food, and during the hour-and-a-half wait for a table, we sat outside and had the kind of easy, unhurried conversation that sticks with you. My last-minute outfit? Weirdly perfect. And Nico? He had exactly the kind of celebration he wanted—nothing fancy, just his people, all there, all in.
No Reservations, No Zipper, No Problem!
If this weekend reminded me of anything, it’s this: don’t sweat the little stuff. Things will go sideways. Plans will fall through. Zippers will break. But those aren’t the things that define the moment.
What stays with you is the laughter, the love, and simply being there. The imperfect moments? They’re often the ones that become the best memories. And this one definitely did.
Commencement Weekend Takeaways:
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Reserve your table at least a week in advance — trust me on this one.
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Always have a second-choice outfit ready (wardrobe malfunctions happen!).
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Get to the commencement venue early — doors open fast, and so do the seats.
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Don’t underestimate the power of a good lunch — it fuels everything.
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Protect your energy and show up with good vibes.
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Don’t sweat the small stuff; it really doesn’t matter in the long run.
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The real gems are the memories you create — not the perfect picture.
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Enjoy every second, be present, and laugh often.
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Most importantly, let pride fill your heart — you’ve earned it.
And as you can see, this mama’s heart couldn’t be fuller.
I’m still soaking it all in (I can’t help it).
Not All Commencement Are The Same
After I wrote this post, I was chatting with a friend and sharing all the wild details from that weekend. She reminded me that Mel Robbins had a similarly chaotic graduation weekend—one that actually sparked her whole ‘Let Them’ concept. I went back and rewatched that podcast, and honestly, it hits even harder now. Funny how clarity shows up in the middle of chaos.
If you haven’t seen it yet, I definitely recommend giving it a watch on melrobbins.com—it’s a good one.
Ever had something totally unexpected happen on a special day, and instead of stressing, you just let it be—and it ended up making the day even more unforgettable?
I’m curious… Drop your thoughts below.
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A lovely post about seeing the positive, even when everything seems to be going wrong! Beautifully written.
Hi Ash,
Thank you so much! I am glad you find some positivity from it.
In high school, my zipper broke right before my piano recital. I had to run home really quick and change or that would’ve been super awkward, lol! Congrats to your lovely son!
Hi Kat,
Yikes, talk about timing! Glad you made it just in time. Thanks for the congrats — means a lot!
What a wild ride of a weekend! It’s amazing how everything that could go wrong somehow did—but your attitude shines through it all. Those kinds of chaotic moments somehow make the best memories, especially when laughter carries you through. Love that you ended it with gratitude and perspective—it really says a lot about your spirit! I love your words, “Don’t sweat the small stuff.” I have to say that to myself when things just happen that we have no control over.
Hi Ann,
Thank you! I truly believe that embracing the chaos with a grateful heart turns those wild moments into stories worth telling. Holding onto perspective really helps me breathe through the unexpected—and yes, not sweating the small stuff is definitely a daily practice! Glad my words resonated with you!
Looks like you had an awesome commencement weekend. Laughter is surely the best thing to happen when plans go sideways.
Hi Hari,
Absolutely! Sometimes the best memories come from the moments that don’t go as planned. Laughter really is the secret ingredient to turning chaos into something unforgettable. Thanks for the kind words!
Terrific tips about commencement! My son graduated from college late last year, and it can be hectic at times.
Hi David,
Exactly! Graduation chaos is real, but it’s all part of the story. Appreciate you sharing your take!
Congratulations! These are great tips! My kids are still young, but I love knowing of others’ experiences. Thank you for sharing and I am excited to check out the podcast!
Hi Vickie,
Thank you so much!I am glad that you can learn from our experiences. You want to watch this episode on the podcast.
What a beautiful reminder that the heart of any celebration isn’t perfection, it’s presence. Loved reading how chaos turned into connection, laughter, and love. This post radiates warmth and realness, thank you for sharing it, Domii! 💛
Hi Daniella,
Thank you so much! You really captured the heart of what I wanted to share — how imperfect moments can become the most meaningful. It’s those real connections and laughter that stick with us. I appreciate your kind words!
Loved reading this! Even with all the chaos, it sounds like such a special and unforgettable weekend. Thanks for the reminder that the little things going wrong don’t matter as much as being there and enjoying the moment. Congrats to Nico—and to you, proud mama! 💛
Hi Jaym,
Thank you so much! It really was a wild weekend, but you’re right—the messy moments made it unforgettable. So grateful for Nico and all the memories we made. Proud mama vibes all the way!
Sounds like you had a crazy fun day! Goes to show that sometimes messes lead to successes!
Hi Tyler,
Absolutely! Sometimes the mess just makes it more real and memorable. Thanks for getting it!
It sounds like lots of lessons were learned, but a great day.
Congrats on your graduation.
Hi Barbara,
Yes, it was a memorable weekend packed with lessons; definitely a great day. Thank you so much!
Love this, and I totally agree with you: sometimes it’s the little mishaps that make the best stories. Thank you for sharing your positivity!
Hi Ginger,
Yeah, honestly, that chaos was just part of the whole experience. It wasn’t perfect, but it was real — and that’s what made it memorable. Thank you reading and your kind words.
Such a lovely memory to look back on!
Hi Tastycue,
Thank you so much! Appreciate your time.
This is such a beautiful and heartfelt list! Full of wisdom and warmth! I especially loved the reminder to protect your energy and be present. It’s so easy to get caught up in the chaos of the day, but those little moments of joy and connection really are the most meaningful. Also, the tip about having a backup outfit is gold, I’ve learned that one the hard way! Congratulations to you and your grad. What a special milestone! 💛
Hi Crystal,
Thank you so much for your kind words! I’m glad those little reminders resonated with you — protecting energy and being present really do make all the difference. And yes, a backup outfit is a lifesaver! Appreciate the thoughtful congratulations.
lol thanks mom, great times to look back on in the future !
Hi Nico,
That means the world to me—thank you! These are the moments that stay with us, and I’m so grateful we get to create them together. Love you 💛